You pack your bags, give your cat one last scratch behind the ears, and head out the door. Whether it’s for a few hours or a few days, one thought lingers in your mind—Do they even care that I’m gone?
Cats have a reputation for being independent, even aloof. Unlike dogs, who greet their owners with tail wags and jumps, cats tend to act a little more… mysterious. But just because they don’t show their emotions in obvious ways doesn’t mean they don’t feel them. In fact, science—and countless cat owners—suggest that yes, cats do miss their humans. They just express it differently.
One major sign that cats feel attachment is how they react to change. Studies have shown that many cats develop strong bonds with their owners, similar to the way children bond with parents. When their favorite human disappears, they often show signs of stress—pacing, excessive meowing, or even changes in eating habits. Some cats will wait by the door, while others may knock things over (possibly as a way of coping with their frustration).
And then there are the cats who act like they don’t care. You come back home, expecting an excited reunion, and they barely look up from their nap. But don’t be fooled—this is just their way of keeping their cool. Many cats show their affection subtly, like following you from room to room, rubbing against your legs, or even sleeping near you. If your cat does any of these things when you return, chances are they missed you more than they’re letting on.
Scent also plays a big role. Cats have an incredibly strong sense of smell, and your scent is comforting to them. That’s why you might find your cat curled up in your laundry pile while you’re away—it smells like you, and that’s reassuring.
But what about long absences? Do cats remember their humans after weeks or months apart? The answer is yes! While every cat is different, many recognize and remember their owners even after a long time. Some may take a little while to warm up, but eventually, that familiar bond comes back.
So, the next time you have to leave, don’t feel too bad. Your cat does notice your absence—and while they might not greet you with a dramatic display of love, their quiet ways of showing affection say it all.
Does your cat act differently when you’re gone? Let’s talk in the comments!